Why Can’t I Go to Communion?

Last week I spoke to a Protestant woman who wanted to know why she could not receive the sacrament of reconciliation from a Catholic priest. Similarly, I hear sometimes from Protestants who want to know why they cannot receive communion in a Catholic Church. I think these kinds of questions are usually sincere and evidence a desire to “get along” with Catholics, and to affirm our common Christian faith. These Protestants want to know why the Catholic Church seems to hold them at arms length, to refuse their overtures of peace.

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What lies beneath this question is an often unstated assumption about the meaning of the Church and the sacraments. For many Protestants, the great variety of Christian belief and practice is proof that God doesn’t insist on absolute uniformity. All that matters is a personal relationship with Jesus. Differences over Church government or sacraments are so many flavors of ice cream. The eighteenth-century revivalist George Whitefield may have been the first Protestant to give voice to this point of view. He said:

I saw regenerate souls among the Baptists, among the Presbyterians, among the Independents, and among the Church [i.e., Anglican] folks — all children of God, and yet all born again in a different way of worship: and who can tell which is the most evangelical. . . It was best to preach the new birth, and the power of godliness, and not to insist so much on the form: for people would never be brought to one mind as to that; nor did Jesus Christ ever intend it. (Cited in Mark Noll, The Rise of Evangelicalism: The Age of Edwards, Whitefield and the Wesleys, 2003: 13-15)

For the evangelical Protestant, “The Church” consists simply in all the faithful souls who believe in Jesus. A Protestant who thinks like this, and who wants to commune and worship with Catholics, may even feel himself to be quite magnanimous. He’s “letting Catholics into the club,” as it were. He is conceding that Catholics, too, have a true faith in Christ. So when the Catholic Church says, “No, we’re sorry, you can’t come to communion,” the Protestant assumes we are writing him off completely, that we are denying he is really a Christian.

The first thing to say in response is that Catholics by no means reject our Protestant brother and sisters, nor do we deny that they have received God’s saving grace. The fathers of the Second Vatican Council repeatedly affirmed that elements of truth and sanctification are found among non-Catholic Christians, and that their communities “have been by no means deprived of significance and importance in the mystery of salvation. For the Spirit of Christ has not refrained from using them as means of salvation.” (Unitatis redintegratio)

The problem, rather, is that Catholics do not share the Protestant conception of Church.  Whitefield was just plain wrong. In Sacred Scripture, we learn that Christ founded one Church, in which there is but one faith and “one baptism.” (Ephesians 4:5, Ephesians 5:23, Matthew 16:18)  When St. Paul writes on the Church, he insists on both doctrinal and liturgical uniformity. (1 Corinthians 1:10, 11:16)  The unity of the Church is not simply spiritual or emotional, but visible and concrete. (1 John 2:19) The principal expression of this visible unity is the Eucharist. (1 Corinthians 10:17)

From the Catholic point of view, the Eucharist is something like a flag or standard that proclaims, “Here is the Church” (in that very robust sense of Church).  In the confessional, likewise, the priest is a kind of icon of Christ as well as Christ’s minister. He is the visible representation of that authority: ” Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven them.” (John 20:23) To receive these Sacraments is to say, “I believe the Church that offers me these sacraments.”

The Catholic Church doesn’t say to Protestants, “you’re not a Christian,” but rather, “you’re missing something. You are missing that full, visible communion with Christ’s faithful to which we are all called.” (John 17:21) In fact, if the Church were to admit non-Catholics to communion it would be like saying that visible unity in Christian belief is neither possible nor desirable. It would be to affirm Whitefield’s unbiblical definition of Church.

When Protestants ask me about receiving Catholic sacraments, I usually ask them a question: Do you believe everything the Church teaches? Do you understand that taking the Eucharist is a pledge of your faith and obedience to the Catholic Church? If you do believe that, then why on earth aren’t you a Catholic? But if you don’t believe that, then why would you want to testify by your actions to a faith you reject? Once I put it in these terms they usually rethink their objections.

4 thoughts on “Why Can’t I Go to Communion?

  1. David - August 12, 2014

    Indeed Red… many Catholics do not take communion seriously, and are taking it in an “unworthy” manner. I know I used to… never thought anything of it. But I blame that on poor catechesis. I left the church for 25+ years and became a devout protestant…. and a few years back reverted. The doctinal confusion and lack of unity of protestantism ultimately led me back to the universal church as I researched early Christian doctrinal beliefs and practices, looking for answers. Now, If I commit a sin I feel compelled to confess, I always go to confession before taking the Eucharist, so I can do so with a clear conscience. I love the Catholic faith.

  2. Red - July 3, 2014

    As a Protestant, I think that this summary would be more convincing if the Catholic Church were as strict with respect to its own “cafeteria” members who openly rebel against Church teaching and yet are not denied communion.

    1. David Anders - July 3, 2014

      Hi Red,

      Thanks for the note. The post wasn’t intended to “convince,” but to explain the theology behind restricting communion.
      As to the circumstance you mention, the Church does not inquire at the communion line whether or not you are Catholic, even less if you are a good Catholic.
      The presumption is that anyone who comes to communion is a Catholic who knows of no impediment to his receiving communion.

      If you know you should not come, but come anyway, it’s your own conscience that is at risk.


  3. Myshkin - June 21, 2014

    Dr. Anders, thank you. I read your column in “One Voice,” but I haven’t been able to find a book of yours at Amazon. I realize that the archives here are free, but do you have any intention of publishing for purchase some sort of collection of your columns?

    For today’s column, “Why Can’t I Go to Communion?”, I think that the two most important words are “visible” and “concrete.” Jesus Himself was both “visible” and “concrete.” This is such a deep area for reflection on the nature of reality itself, and how we live our lives, visibly and concretely. And on what this means for our destiny. I am reminded of the famous quote:
    Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
    Watch your words, for they become actions.
    Watch your actions, for they become habits.
    Watch your habits, for they become character.
    Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

    The visibility of Jesus, and His concrete demands upon us, are “threatening” when we want to dodge the truth about ourselves.

    Protestants who do not understand the exclusion from communion — &/or Catholics who understand poorly why they should be excluded, or refuse to accept it — in actuality are wanting to engage in an inherently dishonest action. We, too, Catholics, need to “watch”, lest we partake without living the Catholic Faith as it is taught, not as we wish, in our moments of faithlessness.

    We “convict” ourselves if we engage in dishonesty by partaking of communion without having tried our best to live the Faith. There is eternal consequence to this action.

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